Value of Words.

Atleast a human-being must understand value of words. One must stand by one's words. Try to speak only which is neccessary. If you promise, then it must be kept at any cost. All this is said by wise men. It is said not in vain. We can try for this. After all we are different from animals. It may take time, but we should try for it.
I don't intend to praise myself. But I try to keep my words. As I am very credulous by nature, I always do this mistake of believing on words of my friends. If they don't keep their words, I get a set-back. There are so many options to express yourself, if you fail to keep your words. Truth is the best way to say your situation or circumstances, if you are unable to keep your words. Sincerity always helps to avoid mis-understanding. Even if some one determines to mis-understand you, let him/her think according to their temperament.
Trully I am not a strict idealistic person. I developed sensitivity with effort. I know and feel prick of a needle in my finger with same intensity, it hurts some one else.
I am impressed by Paramhans's words. " If I say that I have to go for toilet, I must go, even if I don't feel to go." He is God Incarnate, right, but we can atleast try to keep our words. I am of confirmed view that this increases our mental strengh and make more powerful. We are lucky enough to have human- form in present birth. Why not utilise this birth by trying all these trivial practices.
--Shailbala Misra