Destiny Of A Person.

A person is born in this world without his/her choice. The environment one gets, it leaves lasting effect on oneself. One educationist claims that give me a child, I will make him/her whatever I want him/her to be. I believe in this philosophy. But genetic effect can't be totally ignored. I know a person, who is very idealistic. Idealism is in his blood. Since childhood speeches of religious persons leave lasting effect on him. He tries to behave in the manner, which is not possible in this world. One thing more for such person that he must be fearless, which he is not. He is afraid of every thing, such as other persons, society and unknown future. If he is not bold enough to face adverse situation, how can he be happy with so high idealistic views. As far as he is concerned about his behaviour, he cares for morality & principles of high order, but the persons around him may not be up to the mark according to his ideas. But he neither changes them according to them nor change himself according to them. This is the main problem, which makes him restless.

Destiny Of A Person.

Peace of Mind.

I don't know what happened to my peace of mind. I always remain perturbed. I try to keep myself busy in some sort of work all the time. it makes me engaged during day except sleep. But even in my sleep I remain restless. I regularly see dreams of excitement, which are also disturbing.
I learn that one can be calmed down by practicing some Asans of Yoga. So I do regularly seven Prarayam in the morning, which give me pleasure for that period.
My most of the time goes in planning for daily activities. I read any book of my interest daily, but I am not a cool person.
I think that peace can't be purchased. From where I can get this peace? I like hearing speeches of saints. But not have come in contact with any genuine religious person till now. May I meet any such saint, who can provide me peace of mind. But again I am not going to hunt for such person. I will be very lucky, if I meet with a person of strong mental ability by God's grace.
-Shailbala Misra.

Lover Of Solitude.

Solitude is good. Every person should go in solitude for some time in a day. It is needed for habit of thinking and pondering. You can analyse your self. Ram Krishna Paramhans says that a person must spent some time in solitude in a day. We can gain some achievement in spiritualism. Advancement in spiritualism may sound high, but a human being can't ignore it. What I want to say that spending some time in silence & a lonely place is a good practice.
But we are social animals. We need society for our mental health. We cant ignore other persons around us. Spending some time with persons of your choice provides relief, solace and happiness. Socialising to some extent makes you a sensitive person. I can't avoid other persons saying that others are not fit for me to talk or meet. You are not above all. If it is very necessary to spend some time in solitude, spending some time with some human-beings are also very necessary for mental health.
In my opinion a person totally avoids to meet other fellow persons is not a normal or mentally healthy person. It shows his/her egoism to a dangerous level. So please be social to some extent for your mental health.