Personal confession.

Man is full of errors. I mean that a person is an imperfect creature. He/she takes many important decision as soon as he/she grows up. One takes most of the steps, which make no difference in furure course, but some become very important in life.
I also took many decision in my life, which proved right in due course, but for many wrong decision, I am still sorry. I am unable to pardon me for some my wrong decisions. I often remember them, but that can't be undone. I think that only expressing sorry is not suffice. Please Sai make me free from such guilts.
Similarly I faced many words & doings from others, which were gross wrong and for which I was not responsible. I don't forget them, but I try my best to forgive them, who did misdoings to me. I met many persons, who hit me without any reason. whom I never forget, but at the same time I forgive them. I think such experiences are felt by each & every person.
I always remember one thing that " this life is too short for enmity."
Please Lord make me cool and give me Sadbudhhi.
--Shailbala Misra.

Parenthood.

Parenthood is something, which gives you thought for thinking through out your life. First of all, if you become parents after intense desire, you can value its importance. Our Rishies say that you should get children after sincere prayer to God. I think such children, whom we get after prayers, are special ones. Parenthood is a great resposibility. Parents' duty in shaping a child's personality is more serious. It is no doubt that each parent feel and remain resposible till the tender age of their child/children. As a child grows, resposibility becomes less in degrees. A child grows, adopts some profession and [in India] gets married, parents' duty ends. But I feel that a parent's duty never ends. If children are grown-ups, parents can't preach or say hard words in front of them, but they continuously pray for their children's well being. This prayer never ends till the end of life. I mean to say that a parent keeps on praying for their chldren till death. Some says that it is continued even after their death.

Necessity of a hobby.

I feel that every one should develop a hobby from the very begining. Life keeps you busy for certain age. It is true that one can be busy in his occupation or family affairs till one retires. But no one can enjoy these things for a long period. And most importantly I want to say that with the growing age we need some thing to do, in which you become lost for some time. I think you can be at peace only in work of your liking. I don't want to say that one should escape from worldly turmoils, but to escape from this for some time is very necessary for peace & positive thinking.
If you think that when time will come or you feel such need, you will develop any hobby, it is rubbish. Hobby is developed from early age, not at later age.There are so many hobbies in this world, choose any according to your temperament and follow it.
--Shailbala Misra.

Giving Alms.

There is great difference between giving alms & donation. In Hindi we say Bheekh, which is not good for society, while Dan is good. I feel that giving alms increases laziness, worklessness and negativity. Each & every one should work for living. Begging becomes habitual and beggers loose their hesitation to beg. They become shameless in doing so. Beggers are parasite on society. They become so habitual in begging that they cross all limits in doing so. They adopt lies and  false pretence in begging. They mis-use such money. We see many children along with grown-ups begging in the name of Saturn on Saturdays. We do no good by giving them arms.
Yes ! there should be honest institutions, which should help poor in feeding & giving shelters. Effuliant  persons must give donations to these institutions for this noble cause. Thus we do some thing religious and moral. It is our pious duty to feed poor and needy people. We can help genuine persons personally, if we are sure of their miserable condition. All religions advocate Dan/donation and I strongly believe in it.
Shailbala Misra.

Giving Alms.

Religious Celebration.

It is true that religion plays an important role in human life. Seeing coplexities of life, every one wants some thing, which give peace & solace for some time. Religion is widely used for this purpose. It is a very good tranquillizer for sufferings of human beings. It t gives relief to the person, obsevrsing religious rituals and society also praises such persons. But srituality is totally

Religious Celebration.