It is true that thinking of a person totally differs from doings. If I analyse, I find that thinking process starts from very early age. Every-one thinks that I will adopt this line or I will behave in this manner. I will live with this philosophy. Then one comes in contact from home to society. Observation goes on and thinking amends according to wit and understanding. Simaltaniously doings & actions go on change according to situations. Some time he/she is full of anger. He thinks that I kill my opponent, but he doesn't do this. Some time he is in good mood or full with sympathy for some one and thinks I help him to the utmost, but he can't. Thus this gap remains in full swing. In this way we can say that there are two faces of a personality.
But I think, one can minimize this difference with continuous efforts. As one grows and developes confidence, he sincerely tries to do according to his thinking & views. Slowly this difference becomes less & less. I don't want to impose that this diferrence totally finishes, but can be minimised in much degree. I am of confirm view that a person's thinking clearly reflects on his face. In my view occupation affects a person's thinking & doing, which can clearly be seen on his/her face. It is definite that good & positive thinking gives lasting effect on one's doings and doings leave lasting effect on your physical appearence.
Shailbala Misra.
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in today's context, a person is bound by so many relations, reputations and expectations, that he/she cannot act in accordance with his/her thoughts. for example, if i have a reputation of a cold, cruel person, and for once i want to donate money for the poor, i won't be able to do it, because my reputation in the society will hold me back.
ReplyDeletefor bringing unison between one's thoughts and actions, one must conquer his fears, and break-free of all the bonds prejudices.